Men and women are biological creatures who are driven by deep innate principles that are often subconscious. It is important to understand these needs and navigate your relationships with dating skills that are based on these principles.
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Guidelines for women interested in a man
If you are interested in a guy, you want to be cautious, but you do not want to play games. You want to make him feel good and reward his attention appropriately.
Do not confuse this with standards.
Women must have standards and boundaries intact that nurtures her self-esteem and confidence.
If you are a woman who does not want to get “played” by a guy you are interested in, do not sleep with him until he is invested in you.
Cut him if he does not want a relationship at this point, especially if he has told you clearly up front. Believe him. Walk away here.
Do not sleep with him until he has shown you that he is going to stick around. The first few dates are not enough to prove that he is invested.
If he likes you, don’t worry, he will stick around and wait for the moment you decide he has shown you that he is not going anywhere. Only then do you give the precious gift of yourself to him. Do not give these precious gifts away without the price being paid, and that price is him making you feel confident that he is invested in you.
The most common mistake women make
The most common mistake women make, and most likely don’t mean to do this, but here it is:
Saying that you are not looking for anything serious when you first meet someone you like.
A woman is likely trying to avoid disappointment, but the act of saying this will most likely distinguish any potential of a quality relationship establishing any roots. It will turn the relationship energy in a direction that will not be in your favor.
If you meet a man you like, do not tell that guy that you are not looking for something serious, or that you are not interested in a relationship if you indeed are interested.
This is because it takes more time for a woman to fall in love. Guys fall in love much more quickly than women do. This could be because men are much more visual creatures, they fall in love with what their eyes see. Women fall in love with their ears and fall in love later because they need to hear the right things in a sincere manner.
If you tell a guy right from the start that you are not looking for anything serious, he is going to have a hard time getting to a deeper level with you. He will have a hard time falling for you or seeing you in that light of being in the right relationship category. To him, telling him you are not looking for anything serious translates to him thinking that you are not interested, so he will not invest in you at a deeper level, the level you are wanting.
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A couple of dates in, he ghosts you, and becomes unreliable
Lastly, if you have a date or two and things went well, and then all of the sudden he is ghosting you, flaking on you and not showing you that he is reliable. In this case, have the courage, confidence and high self-esteem to walk away from this. Cut him off if he doesn’t want a relationship.
Keep in mind he is showing you this behavior in the beginning stages, when he is showing you that this is his best side.
Even though you may think this type of behavior is mysterious or somehow attractive, make no mistake, it is not.
This is not the kind of behavior that will lead to relationship success. He is showing you that he does not have the ability to value you as you should be valued. Do not be afraid to walk away. Do not communicate any further with him. This will show him that you value yourself enough to do so, as it is time both of you move on.
Instead, look around you and consider the guys who will show up for you. These are the ones who want to take you out, the ones who value you.
They are the ones who will make good partners and will lift you up, while you do the same for them.
They are the guys who will take care of you and love you the way you are supposed to be loved. Sometimes these individuals are right in front of you, and a change in your thinking and perspective to recognize the signs of loyalty and love may be all you need to change your mindset and fall in love with them in return!
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